Broken.

16Aug

categories Around the House, Changes, Family, Florida, health, Husbands, Marriage, Marriage Confessions, Operation BWYP, Random, Suburbia, Understanding Chris, Understanding Katie

On Saturday night, Chris and I went to dinner at a friend’s house.  They had just moved into a new house and so we were celebrating their new digs.  Which, of course, meant Chris and I complained the whole time about our crappy rental house.  We chatted about possible ways to get out of it, but in the end we all decided it was better to wait for a while until things were a little more settled on the home front for us.

We got home around 11:00 that night and when we pulled into the driveway, I noticed the light in the living room was on.

“Oh, we left the light on,” I said to Chris.  “How strange.”

When we went to the backdoor, which is the one we use as the main door to the house, it was unlocked.

Even stranger.

We walked into the house to find that someone had clearly been there while we were gone.  Our house had been broken into and completely trashed.  They came through a window that was behind our entertainment center, so they pushed the entire entertainment center over, sending furniture, pictures, electronics, and Bean’s toys flying all over the place.  Chris immediately noticed his two gaming systems were gone, the Wii and the Nintendo 3, along with all of his games, remotes, and cords.  The pillows from the couch had been pulled off and thrown all over and whomever it was had then poured condensed New England clam chowder all over the furniture and rugs.  Every drawer and cabinet in the house was standing open and the contents had either been pulled out and thrown around or they were empty, their contents stolen.

Walking further into the house, the area in the hall where we kept diaper bags and empty purses was a mess.  Ever bag having been torn open and Bean’s big diaper bag even missing – a total bummer since that’s one of the first things I bought when I was pregnant with him.  Totally replaceable, and not even really used too often anymore, but still such a disappointment.

Our bedroom was the worst.  They had gone through my tall, stand up jewelry box and taken everything.  I had a diamond ring my parents had given me when I was sixteen and another beautiful garnet ring set with two diamonds on each side in white gold that they gave me for my college graduation – garnet and gold.  Go Seminoles.  All of my earrings were taken, including a pair of diamond studs made from diamonds taken from a family heirloom that Chris’ grandmother gave me when I married Chris.  And they took my Bean necklace.  Which just broke my heart.  But the biggest loss for me were two $15 sterling silver rings.  Two simple bands, one inscribed with I Promise, April 29, 1999 and the other inscribed with I Swear, April 29, 1999. They were mine and Chris’ promise rings from high school, our promise to each other that one day we would be married.  And while those rings have long been replaced by two platinum wedding bands, those $15 bands held more significance to me than anything else I own.

Thankfully, they left my last drawer, full of significant cards and letters and keepsakes from over the years – Bean’s baptismal Bible, my baptismal Bible, a copy of the prayer read at my wedding, a card from my sister telling me how proud she was of me getting my masters, and so on and so on.  They also left behind my pearls, my high school class ring, and Chris’ platinum Yale cufflinks that I gave him when he graduated.

They went through all our drawers in our dresser, throwing clothing everywhere and clearly looking for hidden money and valuables.  They pulled all my clothes off the hangers and threw everything from my shelves out into the bedroom.  Our bed had been pulled apart and pillows, sheets, and blankets strewn all over the room.  And underneath it all, my little dog Lucy hid under the bed, shaking and scared and refusing to come out, even for me and Chris.

They also didn’t go into Bean’s room.  His drawers were all closed and his closet hadn’t been touched.  For this, I am so thankful because the thought of them being in his room would have been enough to kill me.

All total, they took most of our electronics (blessedly leaving the most expensive – two large flat screen TVs), all of my jewelry, Bean’s diaper bag, our video camera (luckily I had taken my camera with me to dinner), a couple camera lenses, two iPods, a few knick-knacks, and my iPhone.  All important, but nothing that can’t be replaced.

What they took that was more important than those things was our sense of security.  Our sense of privacy.  I felt so violated.  Someone had been through our things. They had their hands on my wedding china.  They touched our family photos.  They walked in my bedroom.  The term home invasion doesn’t even begin to describe that feeling.  That kind of invasion is personal and emotional.  And those are the hardest wounds to heal.

Chris and I called the police, who came out and dusted for finger prints and took our statements.  And after he left, we were left standing there amongst the mess.  I was shaking so violently that the sunglasses still clasped in my hands after grabbing them off my head when we walked inside were trembling.  The officer told us that often one break in means someone has been in the house and seen valuables that they weren’t able to grab the first time and they often return in a few days or weeks to take what they left behind.  There was no way I could be in the house anymore.  And there was definitely no way I could bring Bean into that house.  He was sleeping safe and sound at my parent’s house that night, and that is exactly where he would stay until we had a better living situation.  In fact, that was where we would all stay.

So, at 2am, Chris and I packed up what valuables that were left that we could take with us and we drove an hour away to my parent’s house.  Sunday morning, we came home with my parents and together we all cleaned up the mess and came up with a game plan.

Our initial 6 month lease was up on Aug. 31 at this house and though we had verbally committed to renewing for another 6 months, we had no yet signed a lease.  Now, I’m not one to go back on my word, but there was no way I was staying in that house another 6 months.  So, Sunday morning Chris talked with our landlords, who were understanding and kind.  We decided to spend the remaining two weeks of August at my parent’s house.  We packed up almost the entire house, except the furniture, and have essentially moved into my parent’s house.  Chris and I will be meeting this week with a property manager about finding a place to rent beginning September 1.  But regardless of what happens, we are out of that house and my family is safe.  And that’s what is important.

I don’t talk often about my faith on this blog and that is on purpose.  But it’s hard to talk about this event – and the subsequent few months since we’ve moved to Florida – without talking about what it has meant to me as a Christian.  When we lived in Connecticut, Chris and I had a pretty charmed life.  At 26 years old, we were making a lot of money.  We had a beautiful house.  We were able to spend money as we needed, and even as we wanted. And with that level of financial freedom comes a level of peace and security.  But it’s a peace and security based on the wrong thing.

When we moved to Florida, I think it was the Lord’s way to telling me that loving Him wasn’t enough for a relationship.  I had to trust Him.  And to show me, He shook my life to the core.  I haven’t been able to find a job.  Our house was small, cramped, and apparently as unsafe as it seemed.  And just about the time Chris and I would feel like we were starting to get on our feet again, something else would come along and knock us for a loop again.  We just couldn’t get ahead.  And through it all, I continued to pray.  But I continued to pray for the wrong things.  I prayed for God to stop this.  To fix things.  To change things.  And what I didn’t realize was that I was missing the point.

What I should have been praying were prayers of thanksgiving.

Thank you Lord that we have a roof over our heads.

Thank you Lord that you have provided food and clothing and met the needs of our family.

Thank you Lord for bringing my husband and I closer together through these trials.

Thank you Lord for the family that surrounds us and pulls us through these times.

Thank you Lord for your plan, even though it is very different than my plan.

What God was trying to teach me was that loving Him and having a relationship with Him means trusting him – and not just in the good times.  It means trusting that even when I can’t see the bigger picture, God does.  He was literally taking all the things that I found security in away from me.  And when I still didn’t get the message, he had other people come in and physically TAKE everything from me.  How much clearer can it be?

Those things that were stolen are just things.  All replaceable.  And that house that was broken is fixable.  What is more important than those things is the health and safety of my family – and we have that.  What is more important is our love for each other – and we have that.  What is more important is our faith that the Lord will provide – and now we have that, too.

Last night, Chris and I climbed into the bed in the spare room at my parent’s house.  Our son was sleeping soundly across the hall and our dogs were finally calm and curled at our feet.  And when we kissed goodnight and I rolled over, I sighed and felt the stress and pressure and fear of the uncertainty that I have been carrying for that past six months leave my body completely.

For the first time in six months, I slept all the way through the night last night and when I woke up this morning I was holding my husband’s hand and thanking the Good Lord for the many blessings in my life.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord.  “Plans to prosper you and not to harm you.  Plans to give you hope and a future.”  Jeremiah 29:11

229  comments   |   posted in Around the House, Changes, Family, Florida, health, Husbands, Marriage, Marriage Confessions, Operation BWYP, Random, Suburbia, Understanding Chris, Understanding Katie   |   tags: faith, Family, life

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1) Jessica @ How Sweet: I am so sorry. I can't imagine how scary that must have been. But it seems that you really have your priorities straight. I could learn alot from you. (08.16.2010 08:35am)

2) Kate G.: Oh my goodness, Katie. You are such an amazing writer and have totally made it clear what a violation this was for you -- you brought tears to my eyes. I am thrilled you guys are out of that house. A wonderful blessing that you have your family nearby. I am thinking of you all. LOVE. (08.16.2010 08:42am)

3) Melissa: Katie, I'm a long time lurker, first time commenter. Let me say that I'm truly sorry for the emotional rollercoaster that you had to endure because of this-- I can only imagine how violated and angry you must feel. However, the fact that you are willing to pay attention to God and listen to what He is telling you, listen to what He can teach you even in these dire circumstances-- that is inspiring. Your blog is always funny and interesting and so real. But, the undertone of it all is the faith that you had, and your effort to always be a better wife, mother, and servant of the Lord than you were before, and that is why I read it. It's inspiring that there are people in the world like you, so please know that your kind heart and lovely words have touched my own spirit, and remind me of all the things I should be doing, and all the things God is already doing for me that I neglect to thank Him for, sometimes. You, Chris, and Bean are in my prayers. (08.16.2010 08:43am)

4) Kendra: Katie, Chris, & Bean - All three of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Thank God that your family lives close and you have a place to stay. Stay strong and continue to allow God to guide you. One of my favorite verses that I live by is Proverbs 3:5-6. (08.16.2010 08:48am)

5) Elise: Katie (and Chris, Bean, Big Molly, and sweet little Lucy) - I think I speak for many in the MC readership when I say that you guys are in my prayers now more than ever. This post broke my heart to read, but if anyone can make it through this terrible ordeal, your family can. You're being replanted (something you were wanting, though maybe not under these circumstances), and now you'll have another opportunity to start blooming. Best of luck in all you do! *internet hugs* (08.16.2010 08:49am)

6) Danielle @ www.danimezza.com: I cried whilst reading this post Katie. I even turned to my husband and shouted "Katie got robbed!" and he said "We don't know a Katie, do we?" and I said "Yes she's my BFF but she doesn't know it." I'm so sorry about your promise rings, I still have a lump in my throat about it. I'm so proud that you still manage to see the silver lining in life. Much love xx (08.16.2010 08:49am)

7) Liss: I don't even know what to write. This made me shudder, and I'm a little choked up, so I can only imagine how you must feel. I'm so sorry for the three of you, but very glad you're all safe. Good luck with what's to come. (08.16.2010 08:49am)

8) Becs: Oh wow, Katie. I am so incredibly sorry that someone has done something so horrible to you and your family. I am so glad you are safe and you are in my prayers. (08.16.2010 08:51am)

9) jescady.com: I'm so sorry that your sense of security in your home was violated, but you truly have the right attitude in this situation and finding the love of Christ in a time that it might seem difficult to find. By the way, that verse is truly beautiful and one of my favorites. It has been one that has brought me much comfort through the challenges of infertility. sending many hugs to you and your family. (08.16.2010 08:53am)

10) Alaina: I am so so sorry for this. You all are in my thoughts and in my prayers. I couldn't even imagine how you felt as you walked through your house and discovered that someone had been through your home and basically destroyed it, taking away your most valuable possessions as well as your sense of security. I pray that you guys can find a home quickly in a safer area, one where you feel happy, secured and where you can bloom where you are planted. (08.16.2010 08:53am)

11) kk: So sorry that this has happened to your family. I wish things will go better from here and everything will be more smooth from hereon. (08.16.2010 08:54am)

12) Marla: I am so so so sorry that this happened. But I am also so glad that you guys are okay. Thank God that you weren't home when they decided to come in. Also, I think you've got it all figured out. Marla @ www.asthefarmturns.wordpress.com (08.16.2010 08:55am)

13) Jen at Cabin Fever: I was tearing up reading this. We had our home broken into three years ago. Among the things taken was my engagement ring. My now husband had hid it and I didn't know about it. I had to find out when he had to tell the police that too was missing. Its a horrible feeling to feel that level of violation. Since we own the house we didn't have the ability to find somewhere else where the sinking feeling of danger lived. We had to move on ourselves. The police never found who entered our home either. I hope they find who did that and recover all your stolen items. My heart is crushed over your promise rings. And the clam chowder mess is just horrible. What a nasty thing to do on top of everything else. Glad your faith is pulling you through this. Cabin Fever in Vermont (08.16.2010 08:56am)

14) Queen of Quirky: Hey Katie, Thinking about you guys. Your words were touching, and thanks for sharing such a vulnerable experience with us. Stephanie (08.16.2010 08:56am)

15) Katherine: Katie, I saw your tweet last night and tried to write an e-mail but didn't know what to say. I am so sorry that someone did this to the three of you, but I am happy that you are seeing it as something which has made you stronger as a family, not weaker. I am a deeply sentimental person and I know that I would be heartbroken were this to happen to me. I think you and Chris have made the right decision in moving to your parent's house for the moment. I, like you, would not want to spend any more time in a place that I no longer felt was "mine". I was also worried about Lucy and Molly, I hope they are okay. Katherine (sending love and virtual hugs to you all from England). (08.16.2010 08:56am)

16) Katy @MonsterProof: I am so glad that you are all safe! How scary! (08.16.2010 08:56am)

17) Robin: I am so sorry you have had to go through this. It is an invasion on your life. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I'm so glad you are safe at your parents house and that your faith is getting you through this very difficult time. Stay positive as much as you can! Sending you hugs. (08.16.2010 08:56am)

18) Ivette: Katie, I am so sorry this happened to you all, but I am so glad that no one was home during the invasion. (08.16.2010 08:56am)

19) jessa: dear Katie (and your family) - i am praying for you - for comfort and peace in your heart as continue onward. thank you for sharing this story and your faith... reading this post gave me goosebumps as i realize how much i too, have to be thankful for. thank you for that Bible verse. (08.16.2010 08:57am)

20) kim: I got the chills reading this post. I am so sorry for you and your family! I am glad you are safe and sound at your parents house. (08.16.2010 08:59am)

21) Allison P.: I am so sorry! What a horrible experience. I am so thankful that you and your family are safe. Hopefully, you can find a safe place to live soon. (08.16.2010 09:01am)

22) Nate's Mom: We're glad you're safe, we're glad you're out of that house, and we're glad that the things that matter most were not harmed or taken. Thinking of the five of you. (08.16.2010 09:03am)

23) Casey: Just like many of the comments above, I, too, was in tears after reading this post. I am sure that most of us are imagining how we would feel had this happened to us. I am so sorry and angry and sad that this happened to you all, and so thankful that 1) your family is safe and 2) Bean wasn't with you when you came home. I can only imagine how confused and scared he would have been - especially watching his parents reaction to such a horrific discovery in their own home. God is certainly watching over you, and your family is in my prayers. May you find a safe rental home in a better area, and may you learn all that God has intended for you to learn. It sounds like you are on your way :) (08.16.2010 09:03am)

24) Renee: I can't imagine what that must have been like, or what you must be feeling. Thinking of you and praying for you. (08.16.2010 09:06am)

25) Katie: I am so sorry this happened to you and your family! When I was a child our house was broken in to and I can remember how violated we all felt and how empty it left us. Your faith is so inspiring Katie. I was crying by the end of this blog and I am so thankful I read it. It reminded me so much of the things I need to remember. God speaks to us in crazy ways sometimes. Hang in there and I will keep all of you in my prayers! (08.16.2010 09:06am)

26) Sara @ embrylovescookies: So glad that you are all safe, praying for you and your family. (08.16.2010 09:08am)

27) Kay: You'll be just fine, you're doing just what you should be doing which is "in all things give thanks" But I'm especially glad that Bean wasn't with you when you walked in the door. Wish you all the best! (08.16.2010 09:10am)

28) Cristy: Oh, Katie, I can't imagine! I, too, take so much of God's provision and goodness for granted right now...things are very stable for us. But I'm so thankful for what you shared about your faith. I'll enjoy reading your blog even more from now on, knowing how God is working in you and your family! (08.16.2010 09:11am)

29) MistyK: I’m so glad to know that you don’t have to spend another night in that house (because i can clearly see from your post that it was never really a home). Last Friday I learned that my husband and I may both be losing our jobs at no fault of our own (losing our contract to a cheaper contractor). We will find out today, but have been reminded that as 'real world' as it seems it really is a test from God. It’s remarkable how tragedy can bring a marriage closer and a relationship with God. My husband and I have been over countless what ifs and I have come to admire him, and the dedication that He has to our 35 employees. We may have to sell our home and declare bankrupt but i really don’t care as long as i have him and my daughter to hold close each night. That sounds about where you all are too at this moment. Everything else is just things. It’s the people that matter. (08.16.2010 09:14am)

30) Jessica: Katie, I'm so sorry to hear this! What a terrible thing to have happen! I'm glad you had a good option for how to get out of that house right away and away from the creepiness. Good luck in your search for new home. (08.16.2010 09:16am)

31) Amber Barnum: Goodness Katie, I am so, so sorry that this happened to you and your family. I will be praying for you all. Trust in the Lord, and he will lead you through. <3 (08.16.2010 09:18am)

32) Lisa: I'm so incredibly sorry for what you went through this weekend. Thank goodness you had a safe place nearby where you could start to rebuild that feeling of safety and normalcy. We'll be thinking of your family over the next few weeks as you search for a new home. ((hugs)) (08.16.2010 09:20am)

33) Katina: All I'm able to say is thank you for this post.... And believe that my prayers will be with you as well. (08.16.2010 09:20am)

34) Peachy: I am so sorry Katie. I understand completely the feeling of violation. It happened to us when I was pregnant with my first child. Stay faithful Stay strong. (08.16.2010 09:21am)

35) Kristin: Oh Katie... You, Chris and Bean are in my prayers. This post just broke my heart, and I feel so sad and violated for you. I am so thankful that you all are ok! I saw your tweet last night and was just speechless. I'm so glad the dogs are ok, too! Lucy was under the bed. Where did you find Molly? Hang in there, keep an open heart to the Lord and He will help you through this time. (08.16.2010 09:23am)

36) Jenni: I just started reading your blog a few weeks ago... As I was reading this, I was wondering if you were a Christian and hoping your were. I'm so glad you have comfort in knowing that God is not surprised by this and has a plan. I'm also happy you decided to share your faith through your blog. People need to know where true hope comes from. :) (08.16.2010 09:23am)

37) Ellen: I'm a long time lurker.. your story gave me goose bumps. What a frightening situation to come home to! Glad you are all safe.. I'll be praying for your family to find a different home. Your story of you and your husband with your wonderful, loving relationship reminds me of my husband and myself. We wake up holding hands sometimes too. :) (08.16.2010 09:23am)

38) Keshet: Oh, I am so so sorry that happened to you. How awful. May the new house be a place of new beginnings and new hope. (08.16.2010 09:24am)

39) Gerri: I am so glad you all are safe and sound. Be secure in knowing God will provide it all! (08.16.2010 09:27am)

40) Rachel Edge: Katie, Chris, Bean and pups, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I saw your post on Facebook first and knew that this would be the blog post of the century. I'm so glad y'all are all safe and that no one was harmed. You are an amazing woman to be able to find the hidden message from God in even the most trying situations. And what's even more amazing are all the comments before mine! You are surrounded by people who are all sending good thoughts your way. I hope you and your family continue to recoup. much love... (08.16.2010 09:27am)

41) Lisa: This breaks my heart to hear about this and though it must have been an extremely violating experience, it is great that you have family nearby to support you and I truly admire you for turning it around and finding the positives to be thankful for. You are in our thoughts and I hope that they catch these heartless people. (08.16.2010 09:29am)

42) Abby @ They Lend Me Their Hearts: Katie, I am completely heartbroken for your and your family. Reading through the experience was horrifying and sad, and left me feeling vulnerable myself. I cannot tell you how sorry I am that that happened to you! I'm am so glad, though, that you were able to move in with your parents! Trusting Him has got to be the hardest part in life, but those lightbulb moments when you figure out what His message has been for you are pretty incredible! Praying with you!! Abby S. (08.16.2010 09:32am)

43) Heather in ND: My heart broke for you when I read your Tweet last night and I've been thinking of you all ever since. You have such faith and hope and belief in God... something I wish I had. You are amazing and inspriational. Kudos to you for keeping your head up through all of this, Katie! (08.16.2010 09:34am)

44) llewilli: What a horrible experience. And what a wonderful perspective you've chosen to have -- not many could turn such a negative into a positive. May you continue to be strong and may some good luck come your way -- b/c regardless of faith and God, you deserve it. And, your poor little Lucy. Hugs to her and your family. (08.16.2010 09:39am)

45) Stephanie: I don't have the words to convey the hugs I wish we all could give you, but many hugs. Many prayers. And many feelings of thanks that you arrived home AFTER they had come and gone. Thanks that you have family in the area that are able to take care of you when you so clearly need a helping hand. And thanks that you are ALL ok, dogs and all. (08.16.2010 09:40am)

46) MaryGene: UGH! I'm so sorry!!! Praying for y'all!! (08.16.2010 09:41am)

47) Katherine: Thinking good thoughts for you and your family as you pick up the pieces from this undeserved mess -- but I loved your post, and the sense of hope that shines through it throughout. Good luck!! (08.16.2010 09:41am)

48) kelley: Katie, My heart goes out to you. I was robbed once too and that violation is crushing. Debilitating at some points. People say all sorts of things - at least you're safe, materials items can be replaced, etc, etc - but sometimes they do little to comfort what you're going through. That violation of privacy and more importantly, security, goes to your core. Be grateful you never have to step inside that house again. There are some tough days ahead, but be confident that you WILL feel safe again in the future. I know it's hard to imagine right now, but there will come a day when you don't wake up sick to your stomach thinking about it. It will get better. Prayers to you and your family. Kelley (08.16.2010 09:42am)

49) Ashley: Dear Katie & Chris, I'm so very sorry you've had to had your security & privacy taken away as you did. Yet I'm glad to see that you realize what you really have and you know that you still have the most important things. Your faith is obviously stronger than even you realize, for God will not give you more than you are able to handle. Thoughts and prayers are with you! (08.16.2010 09:42am)

50) Ella: Katie, Chris & Bean, im so sorry this happened to you guys. I can't imagine what it would be like to have this happen to me. I hope they catch the low lifes that did this. I hope you find a nice place soon. Im glad that you are at your parents house. I'll keep you in my prayers Ella xxx (08.16.2010 09:43am)

51) Heather Ben: so sorry for this to have happened to you guys. glad you are all safe. (08.16.2010 09:44am)

52) Jennifer D.: Oh this gave me chills...but what a mighty God we serve! He uses our most broken times to fill us up the most. This post was once again a reminder to not put my faith and security in the world, but in the One who gave us life! (08.16.2010 09:47am)

53) Laurie: Oh my goodness..I am so sorry that you guys are dealing with this..I am glad you are safe now at your parents until you find a nice place where you can live again as a family. I can't imagine how scary this is for your family. (08.16.2010 09:48am)

54) Anne: i'm so sorry for you! thank you for this post and sharing your feelings. hoping for the best outcome! (08.16.2010 09:55am)

55) Jen @ Life with Jen and Ronnie: How scary! I hate that you are having to deal with this! Your post broke my heart! I love what Jennifer D says above! God is good and it's refreshing to see you praise Him even after this terrible event! Thank you for teaching me a lesson! (08.16.2010 09:57am)

56) Jessica: Oh no! I'm so sorry, Katie. I can only imagine how awful that must have been. I'm glad you and your family are out of there. (08.16.2010 09:58am)

57) Noelle: Katie and Chris, I am heartbroken that this has happened. I am so thankful that everyone is safe, and that you have your family close by to help you all through this as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you! (08.16.2010 10:03am)

58) Cavegirl: i am so happy you, chris, bean, and the dogs are all ok. what a devastating thing to happen while you're already stressed to the max. i always call these situations "the 2x4 from god to wake you up". you are all in my thoughts and prayers. ps my promise ring from my hubby will now be hidden. he gave it to me after our first year of dating and i would be equally as devastated as you if anything happened to it. (08.16.2010 10:10am)

59) Laura: I don’t even know what to say. I can only imagine awful how you all must feel. I’m so sorry for you guys, but so glad you’re all safe. What about computers? I was thinking you were going to say they took your whole book and website! That really would have been awful!! Good luck with what’s to come. It will be a relief to be in a safe place. Lesson learned! (08.16.2010 10:10am)

60) Kara: I am so sorry you guys are going through this! How awful! My heart dropped into my stomach when I read it. And the worst part, even worse than them taking precious things, is that they were so MEAN about it. Clam chowder on the furniture? Seriously?! You and your family are in my prayers! (08.16.2010 10:14am)

61) Anu: Dear Katie,I am so sorry that your family had to deal with such a scary experience. I m happy that you guys were not at home at that time. Luckily you have your parents to turn to. You have the 2 essential things to deal with such a situation - your positive attitude and your strong faith in God. You will be in my prayers. (08.16.2010 10:22am)

62) Layne: Katie, I can't even imagine what that must have been like for you and your family. I'm so, so sorry that you had to go through that. The idea of someone taking something as precious and simple as Bean's diaper bag and leaving Lucy trembling scared under the bed are the things that break my heart the most. You have an amazing spirit to be able to find peace and security after an incident like this. I pray that you can recover some of your things, hopefully the most sentimental ones. Even though they are just things, I know how much they can mean. But most of all I am so thankful that you and Chris and Bean and Lucy and Molly are all safe and sound. God bless you and keep you. ~Layne (08.16.2010 10:23am)

63) Leslie: I'm so so sorry that a horrible thing like this has happened to you guys! It is beyond refreshing to hear about what you took from such an awful situation and how you can see the greatness of God's plans through all the mess. Thanks so much for sharing and being so open and honest with us here in internet world :) Your family is in my prayers (08.16.2010 10:24am)

64) Sara: Oh my goodness, I cannot even believe this happened to you! There are no words, but I'm thankful you can see the reason and possible good in a horrible thing. I'll be praying for you and your family today. (08.16.2010 10:26am)

65) Lee Ann: Katie, thank you for sharing, once again, an intimate moment from your life, as well as the lessons you have taken from it. If only I could be as insightful as you. I fear that I'd only be angry. However, I would feel the gratitude that my family, including the pups, were safe. Thank you for giving me much to think about today. (08.16.2010 10:31am)

66) Jeannine: Oh my gosh, what a nightmare! I am so glad that you are all okay and that you have such a good outlook despite the horror. Sending you my best wishes. Jeannine (08.16.2010 10:33am)

67) Joke: I'm so sad that you and your wonderful family had to go through this! I couldn't believe my eyes while I was reading this... I'm happy you all are safe though, please take good care of eachother and give everyone a big hug on my behalf, especially your poor little doggies... I'm thinking of you all and hope you will recover soon. (08.16.2010 10:35am)

68) Cindy: I'm so glad that you, Chris, and Bean are safe and sound at your parents' house! I know how scary that can be because it happened to my mom and me when I was in grade school and my parents' were in the middle of a divorce. I was the one that discovered the mess and it still haunts me to this day. You feel so violated when someone you didn't know was in your house and touching your things. My prayers are with you and your family. (08.16.2010 10:40am)

69) deepa: Oh Katie, I am so sorry you have to go through this mess. I am just happy no one was home and am glad the Bean was safe and away from all this! How awful. My thoughts are with you and your family. You and Chris can do it! Good luck finding a new place! (08.16.2010 10:41am)

70) Stephanie Hannum: Katie, I am so sorry for what has happened, I was robbed in college and know it is the worst feeling in the world. However, I am happy that you have listened to what God has been saying to you, which can provide a better sense of peace and security than anything else in the world. Take care! (08.16.2010 10:41am)

71) Amy: Katie, Chris & Beanie - I am a longtime "lurker" but first time commenter. First of all, I am so sorry that something so traumatic happened this weekend- I am so glad you are all safe (Lucy & Big Molly, too!) My heart aches for you, and please know that I am keeping your family in my prayers through this time. With that said, I want to thank you, Katie, for sharing your heart with us as you reflect on the situation. What you said really touched me today. The way you are able to see God in the really hard stuff; to see the good in bad situations and give thanks in the midst of turmoil is inspirational. (08.16.2010 10:44am)

72) Dana: Oh, Katie! I am so sorry! As you were describing the sad discovery of Saturday night, I had a knot in my stomach. I cannot even imagine how violated you felt. I will be thinking of you all and hoping that this opens the door to something better. . . (08.16.2010 10:45am)

73) Sarah H.: Katie, even though I don’t know you in person—sometimes I feel I know you better than some people I DO know in person because of how much you share with us. Thank you for that. I view your family as my friends, and when something bad happens to my friends it just breaks my heart! I was thinking about you all night and all this morning—I just couldn’t even imagine what you have been through this weekend! I was very interested to see what you were going to write today (if anything) because I didn’t know if your computers were gone, or what. And what could have been a VERY angry, the world sucks, kind of post was absolutely beautiful, heartfelt and full of praise for God. The entire time I had tears (and I’m not a crier). I know a while back you had told me you extended your lease so I was worried you wouldn’t be able to get out—but I’m glad that worked out, because if it was me I would have wanted to be gone from that house. I’m glad your parents are somewhat close and you have a safe place to sleep. Thank God! Please know that my heart is heavy for all that you have lost, but it also smiles for what you have gained (a renewed trust in the Lord, and finally a full night’s sleep!) I’m sending big hugs to all of you!! We’re thinking of you all the way up in Maryland. Oh and thank goodness no one can ever steal your blog!! We’re all still here safe and sound, along with all your family pictures and memories. (08.16.2010 10:45am)

74) Katie N.: Katie, Chris, & Bean - I echo the sentiments of everyone else that has posted here. I cannot begin to fathom that yucky pit that must be in your stomach right now, but do know that it will fade over time and this will just be one speed bump in the road of life. I am humbled by your clarity in this situation, and your ability to be so refreshingly honest about your faith. It is, indeed, the way we all should strive to live. I hope that while you have to deal with the horror of this situation, that these next few days are laced with happy moments of time shared with your family. You are all in my prayers. (08.16.2010 10:45am)

75) Victoria: Katie, I can't believe that someone would do something like this. At least everyone is ok and this was truly a wake up call in a lot of ways. When my parents house was robbed (in orlando as well) a lot of the stuff turned up at area pawnshops. You may be able to get some of the more expensive jewlery back by calling and giving descriptions or just to keep calling and asking if they got something like XX in. You may not want to tell the pawnshop people you were robbed though as they may be less likely to tell you the truth because they dont want to deal with the cops. My mom told the shops that her sister's boyfriend had taken the items and while she was upset she didnt want to press charges she just wanted the items back. She managed to get my great grandma's earrings and wedding ring back as well as a few other items that were special. Hopefully, you guys will find a nicer place to live in a better neighboorhood soon =) (08.16.2010 10:46am)

76) Kate: Oh Katie, I read this on your twitter last night and I wanted to comment then, but didn't know how. I'm so sorry this happened to you all. No one should have to go through that horrible, sinking, heart dropping feeling. I'm so thankful that Bean wasn't with you and that you all have a safe and calming place to stay while things get sorted out. I'll keep you all in my thoughts. (08.16.2010 10:48am)

77) Carrie T: I'm so sorry that this has happened to you!! Please know I am thinking about you. I just don't get people who do things like that. The cemetery here in my home town was vandalized last week. 168 tombstones were pushed over or broken. I just don't see what the fun it would be to do that or to break into someone's house. So sorry!! (08.16.2010 10:52am)

78) Emerald: I read your blog regularly but this is my first comment. I've had a similar experience, except I was home and sleeping when someone broke in. I lived out the rest of my two month lease at my boyfriend's house because I never felt safe there again. Good for you for taking your family to your parents. Even years later, when my (now) husband leaves town for an extended period, I still get those old feelings of not being safe and triple check the locks at night. What they really stole was your sense of security-the most valuable thing they could've robbed you of. You have to fight to take it back. I feel for you Katie, big hugs from Minnesota. (08.16.2010 10:59am)

79) Lindsey: So glad that you and your family are safe. I am so sorry this happened to you. I remember feeling violated when my car got broken into and all my things were taken out of it. I can't imagine how you felt when you saw everything you owned had been sifted through. Glad Bean wasn't at home with a sitter - and SO glad you guys are out of there. Here's to a better road ahead! (08.16.2010 11:02am)

80) Rachel: I read your blog daily, but I don't comment too often. I'm so very sorry to hear about your home but so thankful that everyone including the dogs are safe. You will be in my prayers and I know that this is only the beginning of wonderful things coming to you and your family. (08.16.2010 11:06am)

81) Courtney @ Living Life on Fire: So, so SORRY to hear this :( Thinking of you. (08.16.2010 11:11am)

82) Ashley @ According to Ashley: Katie - Thank you for writing this post, as hard as it may have been! My husband is a police officer, so I know all too well about the nasty people in this world. I'm thankful no one was home when they entered and that they didn't lay a hand on Beanie's things. Hugs! (08.16.2010 11:16am)

83) Becca: So sorry that happened to ya'll. But it's so true...God knows what He has planned for you and he'll take care of you. God bless! (08.16.2010 11:18am)

84) Kendra: couldn't agree more! While your faith is not talked about a lot you can tell that it is there with each of your posts! (08.16.2010 11:18am)

85) Brody: I am so very sorry that that happened to you. I know the feeling of violation and hurt that comes from that, and to keep your priorities straight the way you are is admirable. Thank God you are all ok. Thinking of you in Brussels. (08.16.2010 11:20am)

86) Casper: I am so sorry that this happened to your family. My thoughts are with you. I know it is hard to shake that feeling of being invaded, that unsafe feeling. (08.16.2010 11:27am)

87) Christina: I have been reading this blog for a little over a year now. I am a quiet reader that never says much. But I read this post today(at work) and just sobbed at my desk. Thank goodness I am in here alone, lol. But I just wanted you to know I am thinking about you and your family in this most trying time. I have never been through the situatoin you explain. I for sure can't imagine being in your shoes. But I am sure you know God has your back and he will bring you and your wonderful family through this hard time. Thank you Jesus that you and your family are safe and are close to family that can be with you through this rough time. God Bless you and your family! I am sending up a prayer right now for your safety and piece of mind :>) (08.16.2010 11:29am)

88) Josey: Oh my gosh Katie - I read your blog daily and don't often comment (b/c it's in my reader at work) but this post made me instantly click over to comment. I am SO sorry your sense of safety and security was violated. I live in a little town where our doors are unlocked, and every once in awhile I get scared to death about what would happen if I lost that sense of security! I'm glad your family is safe, your marriage is full of love, and your faith is God is stronger than ever. (08.16.2010 11:30am)

89) dave: Katie, Shocked and sorry here. I'm surprised how you are able to keep your head clear and write a post about it without using any vile language. Guess that is why you're an inspiration to many here. It is a good thing that this didn't happen while you were in your house with bean. You made a good decision to not stay in that house anymore. Wish you guys find a safe home soon. (08.16.2010 11:38am)

90) Martina: Oh Man! I'm so sorry! As I was reading this I kept hoping it was a joke (not that it was funny) or a nightmare and not a true story. How awful! I don't know how people get through any terrible thing like this without faith and God's provision. I'm glad you are all OK physically and I know He will heal your hearts and bring restoration over time. I'll be praying for your family. Again, I'm so sorry! (08.16.2010 11:40am)

91) Aunt Joan: Kate, my only reply to such a beautifully written story is to say that God has truly blessed you! (08.16.2010 11:42am)

92) Sara: oh katie...i am so sorry. i recently had some scary break ins (my car, someone tried to jimmy my house lock) and know what that feeling of "security being shaken" is. i am so glad you have your family near to help steady you and house you while you pick up again. glad you are all ok, and you have already turned this awful thing into a learning experience. good luck, i know you have great things coming for you! (08.16.2010 11:43am)

93) Emily: Oh Katie, I am so sad that you and your family have to deal with this. How incredibly scary and upsetting. You are all in my thoughts. Sending much love your way. (08.16.2010 11:43am)

94) Jessica: My heart broke reading this post. I've been reading your blog only for a few months and leave a few comments- but I felt like I was reading about this happening to a close friend. I'm so sorry this happend! It's awful to know that we live in a world where people are heartless enough to do stuff like this. And thank you- because I too often forget sometimes to not ask God to fix things, but to thank him for what he has blessed and given me with. I was reminded of that very much yesterday at my wedding shower and this morning while readin this-- I am truly truly blessed for the people in my life. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers! and its wonderful that you were able to come out of this with a positive outlook. Wishing you all the luck moving forward! (08.16.2010 11:44am)

95) Kelly: Oh Katie, I am so sorry. My house got broken into in college and they took everything. It left me feeling violated and scared. And you are so right...although all your "things" are gone (the jewelry and keepsakes are the WORST), at least you still have your health and your family and your faith in Jesus. Like you, 2010 has not been my year. It started off with my dog dying, my grandmother being diagnosed with cancer and then the worst of the worst came...my younger brother was killed in an ATV accident (he was a week away from his 26th birthday). I had a similar relationship to him as you do with Ginny...we were SO CLOSE...best friends...so much more than brother and sister. However, amazingly through everything that has happened to me this year, I have become even closer with God and my faith has grown incredible amounts. I think when these things happen in our lives it is our job to step up and trust in God and realize that although it seems like it can't get any worse, you have to look around and realize how many amazing things you do have in your life. I know all these bad things have made me a better person. They have made my marriage stronger and my family's bond tighter than ever (which was hard to do before all this). I know all these trials and tribulations that 2010 has thrown at you will make you and your family so much stronger too. (08.16.2010 11:46am)

96) Sarah: I am so sorry to hear this happened to you, what an awful thing to have to go through. I will pray for you all. (08.16.2010 11:50am)

97) Holly: This brought tears to my eyes. I am so sorry that this happened to such a wonderful family. Thinking of you all. (08.16.2010 11:59am)

98) El: Katie, Chris, Bean, Molly, and Lucy - I am so sorry this happened to you. I am so relieved to hear that Bean's room was not touched. I would have gone completely gone berserk if someone had touched things in my child's room like what was done to the rest of your house. I was robbed in an apartment years ago. I remember the feeling of violation not just to self, but almost to my soul. I remember thanking God that I was not home when it happened and all that was lost was stuff. I know that is how you feel. I am grateful that Lucy and Molly were not hurt. I remember the relief I felt when I was able to move to a new apartment and start over (and this was long before I had a child), so I am truly grateful that you are able to do that with Bean and not have to be scared there. Take care and keep safe. You and your family are in my prayers. (08.16.2010 12:01pm)

99) Shannon: I know how it feels to have your home broken into. I know how it's not what they took physically, but what they took from you - you're feeling of comfort and safety. I'll never forget how that feels. I've had my home broken into once, my storage building that I was renting broken into, and my car broken into once. It just baffles my mind that people think it's OKAY to do these things - clearly, they have a lot to learn and their thinking just isn't right. I hope and pray that you are able to find comfort and safety again and that this only brings you all closer. *hugs* (08.16.2010 12:03pm)

100) Tiffany: Oh, Katie and Chris. And Bean. I love you guys. I felt sick to my stomach reading about what happened. I'm so, so sorry for what has been done to you. Nothing, of course, can replace your promise rings or the family heirlooms that were taken or broken, but I am so glad that you weren't home when these horrible people arrived and that they left Lucy and Molly alone. Your family, at least, is safe and I have every finger crossed that the perfect new home will find its way to you for September. You guys are in my heart today, as always, and in my prayers. Please let us (your virtual friends and family!) know if there is anything we can do to help. Take care. (08.16.2010 12:03pm)

101) Aimee: Katie, so much of what you're learning about is what I am currently learning about as well. I am so glad that you have made the decision to continue to seek God in these tough times, even though there is constant pressure to give up or decide that its just not worth it. Praise God! (08.16.2010 12:08pm)

102) Snarky Mommy: Shitty, shitty, shitty. But no one was hurt and everything is replaceable. You know what's interesting is that I was just reading an article written by a former burglar about how to protect yourself and one of the 10 things he mentioned was that thieves almost never touch kids' rooms. Thankfully, that was the case this time as well. Enjoy the peace and quiet at your parents' house. And good luck with the next rental quest. (08.16.2010 12:16pm)

103) Christy: I am so sorry that this has happened to you. I can only imagine how scary that it must have been. Good luck. (08.16.2010 12:19pm)

104) Brittney: Katie, I have been following your blog, and journey, for approximately 9 months, but have never commented. I recently have gone through a few events in my life that have tested my faith as well. Your post has reaffirmed my belief that things happen according to a plan that is not our own. In every case we have two options; accepting and waiting, or refusing to accept and becoming bitter/resentful. It says a tremendous amount about your character to handle such a devestating event in such a positive manner. I have no doubt that beautiful things will happen in your life; beautiful and unexpected things. That is what followers of Christ have to look forward to. Best. (08.16.2010 12:20pm)

105) Susan Samson: Wow. A break-in is a huge fear of mine. That my son & I will come home to find just what you described. I am glad you are somewhere safer now. And that you have grown from a horrible experience. I will keep your family in my prayers, Katie. (08.16.2010 12:22pm)

106) Laura: My heart is breaking for you guys right now. I can't even imagine how scary that was. I am so glad you are all three okay though. You are in my thoughts and prayers. (08.16.2010 12:24pm)

107) Jeanne: I am so glad you guys are okay. (08.16.2010 12:25pm)

108) Jennifer: Katie~ When I saw your Twitter update about this situation, I felt sick. I think this blog post, although sad and scary, is without a doubt wonderful! It's always amazing when God brings you to the point when you can finally look back and see that all that you have been through has brought you to where you are! It's never easy, but it's His way of bringing up closer to Him! You, Chris, and Bean will continue to be in my prayers. Remain close to Him and He will always see you through! God Bless! (08.16.2010 12:32pm)

109) Leah @ justpluckingdaisies: Katie, thank you for these reflections. God is doing beautiful things in your family and in your heart. My prayers are with you And i am so thankful to see that God is using such a tragedy and pulling you close to himself. I pray your family continues to find rest in him. (08.16.2010 12:44pm)

110) Megan: Oh Katie...I'm so very sorry! I can not imagine what it would feel like to know that strangers were in my home. I think I would have done exactly what you did by packing up and leaving. I'm so glad you are close to family and have the help and support of them there. And that you had a place to go and stay for awhile. I don't know what we would do. You are such an inspiration to me. I'm afraid it might have taken me a little longer to see the lesson from God in this situation. You are incredible for seeing it so quickly and even more so for sharing with all of us! The three of you are in our prayers!! Blessings, Megan (08.16.2010 12:45pm)

111) TMae: I think this is the first comment I've left - I've been following you and Bean since before I had my son almost a year ago. I read this and all I could say, over and over, was "Oh my God...Oh my God." Like all the comments before mine, I'm glad you guys weren't home, and I am so, so sorry this happened. What a terrible thing to come home to. I can't imagine how I would feel. You're in my thoughts. (08.16.2010 12:51pm)

112) JenD: Katie, I'm so sorry for you guys....I think that this is one of the scariest situations that you guys could have been through. I'm so thankful that you all and Bean were out of the house. There's no way I could continue living there either-especially with Bean involved. I hope that you all find something better and somewhere where you feel safer soon. Thanks for keeping us updated and let us know if they find out who did this!!!!!!!!! (08.16.2010 12:52pm)

113) Sheetal: Katie, I read your blog everyday, but have not commented yet. This entry brought tears to my eyes. I grew up in a country where this was a regular occurrence. My parents house have been broken into several times, once while they were sleeping. I once walked into the house alone, while someone was still in it. I feel the pain that you are going through, the sense of violation, the thought that someone went through your things. This will take some time to get over, but as you said that they were only things. I am glad that you and your family are safe. I will keep you in my thoughts. (08.16.2010 12:54pm)

114) Heather: When I come home from work, one of the first things I do is read blogs on bloglines. Usually I save yours for last and read it with a cup of tea, yours is the most interesting to read and the one I look forward to most. Today I clicked right on it first thing. And cried my eyes out for you. I am devastated for you that your house was broken into and your precious things stole and everything trashed. I'm so glad that you, Chris, Bean, Molly and Lucy are safe now and I hope that you are able to move on. Much love, Heather x (08.16.2010 12:55pm)

115) Heather M: I'm sorry that this happened to you and your family. But one of the wonderful things that struck me in your story is how you came together as a family. How despite this horrible and tragic event - you and Chris and Bean WERE able to drive on over to your parents and stay with them :) I'm sorry that you are missing some precious things and I really hope that you are able to get them back but I'm also very thankful that the robbers were gone when you returned. You are right to count the many blessings in what has happened. I hope that you find the Right home for you all for however long you need:) (08.16.2010 01:06pm)

116) Audrey: Oh Katie, I'm so very sorry to read about all of this. You and Chris and Bean are in my prayers. I know that God is holding you in the palm of his hand through this ordeal. Sending peace your way. (08.16.2010 01:06pm)

117) Kelly @ The Startup Wife: I'm so sorry to hear about the break-in, but I relate so completely to everything else. We've had our own traumatic experiences this year and they've haunted us for 11 months now, and I find myself having to check our own prayers, too, and try to align what I want more closely with what God might want (even when I have no idea when that is). Praying for you! (08.16.2010 01:07pm)

118) Jenny J.: How terrible! I am so thankful that you and your family weren't home or harmed when that all went down. I will keep you in my thoughts and hope you find a better place soon! (08.16.2010 01:07pm)

119) Robyn: Katie, I am so sorry this happened to you! We had this similar situation happen when we came home from Vacation to find our TV, Video games,a few movies that they picked and chose from and what bothered me the most they went thru my 6 yr olds drawers and took his allowance that he has been saving for a PSP. I didnt care so much about the items, but the fact that they walked thru my entire house and left footprints to prove it. I will keep you guys in my prayers! (08.16.2010 01:09pm)

120) Tiffany: Katie, Thank you for posting this. I saw your tweet last night and have been a bit heartbroken for you and your precious family. I'm so sorry for the loss of the material things and fear and vulnerability that has come from an experience like that. I'm so thankful that everyone in your family was safe and not at home when this happened. I know you rarely talk about your faith, though it is evidenced through the things you value and blog about, so today's post really touched me. Thank you for writing about and reminding us all of where our true value and security lies. These are lessons that are incredibly painful to learn and it's always difficult to see them when you're in the midst of it, but I pray there will be boundless blessings on you and your family as you move on from here. Thank you for reminding me of these truths for my own life as well. I'll be praying that the Lord provides a wonderful, safe new home for you soon! (08.16.2010 01:10pm)

121) Claudia: Katie, I didn't understand the power of prayer until yesterday. In many ways, I can connect to what you are saying. I am sorry for the chain of unfortunate events. Even in cyberland, know that you and your family are not alone and we are here supporting you. I am very glad that all three of you were out of the house when this happened, although I feel for Molly and Lucy. I hope they will soon forget about this. You and your are in my thoughts and prayers. (08.16.2010 01:11pm)

122) Ashley: I am sending my prayers your way today! I know how hard this can be, as my apartment at college was broken into twice last semester! They went through pictures and papers, clothes and jewelry, and the thought of them probably seeing me on campus and thinking "HAHA, I GOT YOUR STUFF" was almost too much for me to handle. It's hard enough being away on your own and working for what you have in college to have everything taken from you like that, but I can't imagine having them taking my husbands and childs stuff too! Just know that there are tons of "us" out in this world who love you and think of you as family of our own. You will get through this! Much love! (08.16.2010 01:12pm)

123) Mindee@ourfrontdoor: Oh Katie, I am so glad you are all safe. I am SO glad you weren't home and that you didn't have to walk into that mess with your baby in your arms. I pray you hold on to your new realizations and thankfulness - those are such great lessons. A gift in themselves really. God bless, Mindee (08.16.2010 01:17pm)

124) Emilyc: I am so sorry this happened to you and your family and you are in my prayers - praying that God gives you back double for all the trouble! (08.16.2010 01:23pm)

125) Jaclyn: Katie, I'm a rare commenter here, but I am so incredibly sorry about what happened to you this weekend! I'm glad everyone is safe, and I know from reading your and Chris' posts that you'll bounce back from all of this. That's such a terrible scary thing and I can't even imagine it, but I'm glad you are near your family. Much love from LA, Jaclyn (08.16.2010 01:25pm)

126) Hilary: Katie, I know exactly how you feel! I've never been in that situation, but after my son was born in March, I suffered from horrible postpartum depression. I had to force myself to admit things to my mother and husband that no one ever wants to say to the people who love them most. Out of the darkest moment of my life came a total renewal of my faith in God. After living in our townhouse for five years, I finally found a church that supported my need to get back to Christ. I have started reading my Bible again and watching programs that are spiritually uplifting (Joel Osteen is my hero). I have become so much more aware of how I treat people and have recommitted myself to being a kinder, more compassionate person and to NEVER, EVER take life or my beautiful, healthy family for granted again. I know the power the enemy has to "rob, steal and destroy" as was done in your case, but I am always reminded that "Greater is He who is in me, than he who is in the world." I know that in light of your circumstances, the Lord must be planning something so huge for your family and He wanted to be sure that you would remain faithful. Get ready for some unbelievable blessings to be headed your way, girl!! (08.16.2010 01:28pm)

127) Lindsey: Wow! You don't know how much I needed to read this. So glad you and your family are all safe. (08.16.2010 01:41pm)

128) Lauren P: I can't imagine what you must be going through. It sounds so awful.. everything about it, not just the stealing but the destruction, and the fact that your sweet dogs were there while it happened just makes me want to throw up. I am so glad that the humans weren't home, but dogs are part of the family too and I can't get past that part. Poor Molly and Lucy! I agree with other posters and am grateful that Bean wasn't with you when you got home. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wonderful family. (08.16.2010 01:52pm)

129) Erin: Your post made me cry. I don't even personally know you, but your post made me cry, then get angry, then become so proud of your outlook and strong faith. I am so thankful that you had your parents nearby. What a blessing is family. I'm praying for you and your family. (08.16.2010 01:56pm)

130) Kim B: Katie I am so sorry you have had to go through this. It is a blessing that you have your parents nearby to help you get through this rough patch. Your testimony here is amazing. Hang in there and continue to rely on our Heavenly Father. God bless! Kim Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Phillipians 4:6-7 (08.16.2010 01:58pm)

131) Jessica W: I admire you so much Katie. We serve an awesome, great God. His blessings are apparent in the midst of trials, we just have to remember to look for them. Praying for your family. (08.16.2010 01:59pm)

132) Carrie: Praying for you Katie and Chris, and despite all that has happened, your words remain beautiful. GPS your iPhone and maybe you can track your phone and those people who violated your home. (08.16.2010 02:19pm)

133) Laura: Wow, I read this and felt just awful, one of my biggest fears is having my privacy invaded. Living in South Africa we have enormous walls and electric fences etc, and even though we live in a really good area I've had armed men enter my property multiple times. Glad to know your family is safe, and best of luck getting past this horrid event. (08.16.2010 02:21pm)

134) Kim: I am so sorry. I am happy for you that you have been able to find the silver lining here. Having a strong sense of purpose will help you with the next rounds of trials and tribulations. What does not kill us makes us stronger. Hang in there. (08.16.2010 02:23pm)

135) Melissa: Like everyone else, I am so sorry that you have been through this. I'm so glad that you and your family are in a place where you can feel safe and secure. I know exactly what you mean when you say that going through this strengthens your faith in God. How awful that this happened to you, but isn't it wonderful to know that something terrible happened and rather than shaking your faith, it was made stronger? Sort of gives you a feeling that you can handle anything... And you can!!! (08.16.2010 02:32pm)

136) Melissa: You need some fun thoughts, and I just had one... This is the PERFECT reason for P-Dub to invite you and Chris to come and stay for a while at the ranch. (08.16.2010 02:37pm)

137) Katy: I have tears in my eyes right now! I don't comment very often, but you and your family have become dear to me through your words. I relate to you in so many ways...I feel like we are often going through the same things at the same times. When something happens to you, I feel it as if you're a close friend...I hope that's not weird...:) I'm just sick that you have to go through this. I'm praying for you today, and I hope the best for you! Love to you guys! (08.16.2010 02:37pm)

138) Victoria S: Oh Katie, I am so, so sorry to hear this happened to you and your family. I wish I knew what else to say... The only thing I can think of is a practicality, and that's a recommendation on a home security system. I imagine you guys will not be thinking about until you buy a home here, but if there's any chance it will be of use to you... SafeTouch - the biggest reason we chose them was because they have this two-way communicator, so when the alarm goes off they can listen in on our house and call the police without needing our permission. Again, I am so sorry. I think it's wonderful you guys are near family who are able to support your at a time like this. (08.16.2010 02:44pm)

139) Laura: I'm so very sorry to hear what happened. Your words of faith have brough tears to my eyes. You are a wonderful role model, and an encouragement for so many of us out here! (08.16.2010 02:53pm)

140) Tressa: Katie, I am so sorry to hear about this. I can't comprehend some people and their thinking and now how their actions make you feel. I'm thankful you, Chris and Beanie are safe (Molly, Lucy and the fishy too--LOL). You all will be in my prayers. (08.16.2010 03:03pm)

141) Sarah: Your strength and resolve are inspiring, thank you for sharing your story. Always remember the parable of the footprints... "when you saw only one set of footprints, that was when I carried you." We'll keep your family in our prayers. (08.16.2010 03:20pm)

142) Jamie: Katie- I read your post earlier this morning and I couldnt think of words that seemed like they would help you feel better. I still cant, but I did want you to know that I am thinking about you and your family today and I feel just terrible that it happened to you. I hope that the outpouring of support from your readers makes you feel a little better. We care! While I know those things that were stolen were just things, it breaks my heart that you had to lose such sentimental items because of someone else's senseless selfishness. Stay strong. MC readers of the world are cheering for you and your family! (08.16.2010 03:25pm)

143) Caitlin: Katie, I saw this on your twitter and was so devastated for you and your family. I'm so glad you have your family and faith at a time like this, and we are all praying for you guys. Love, Caitlin (08.16.2010 03:28pm)

144) Jen: I am so sorry! So glad to hear that no one was home when it happened. It sounds like you have made the right decision to move. Are Big Molly and Lucy alright?? Were they home at the time?? Keeping you, Chris and Bean in my thoughts! (08.16.2010 03:39pm)

145) Molly: Oh Katie, I'm so very sorry that this happened to you. It is the WORST feeling knowing that someone has been in your house. That someone has been amongst your things. Touched them, stood there deciding what to take! This happened to my parents and the thief actually left the garage door open when they left. And our dog got out and disappeared. I can tell you that NONE of us cared about the material things that were taken that day. We just wanted our friggin' dog back! We spent 48 hours scouring the neighborhoods, putting up signs, crying together. It was the worst 48 hours ever. We LOVE our dogs :) Thankfully, a neighbor called two days later saying that they thought they had seen our dog running around. I swear, I've never run faster than when I saw him running toward us in a field. Anyway, back to you. I can relate so much to your story right now. I am heartbroken about our housing situation. But I am constantly trying to remind myself that we have a home. It doesn't matter how big it is or where it sets in this world. What matters is that the ones I love are inside. They are safe. They are fed. They are LOVED. Bless your heart, hon. Believe me when I tell you that you WILL come out stronger on the other side. (((hugs))) (08.16.2010 03:44pm)

146) Andrea: Katie I am SO sorry! I know you don't know who I am, but after reading your blog, I feel like you're one of my friends. I was in tears, seeing what happened to your house! I can only imagine the sick feeling you must have in your stomach. Such a horrible thing to happen to such good people. You are so lucky to have your family close by.....our nearest relatives are 5 hours away, and my parents are 800 miles north of us, so thinking about what we would do in a similar situation makes me nervous. More importantly, the second part of your post is what stood out to me today. I am in awe of your faith! What a powerful message you've sent out into the cyberworld! My husband and I have a year of big changes approaching, and the verse from Jeremiah was exactly what I needed to hear. Trusting in God's plan can put the most agitated mind at ease - but only if you let your worries go. Thank you for that reminder...... Best wishes for finding a new - BETTER AND SAFER - home! *hugs* (08.16.2010 04:01pm)

147) Susan: I'm a long time reader of your blog and a first time commenter. I am so sorry to hear about the break in! That is so frightening for you and Chris, but I'm so glad that you're all okay! Like many of the those that commented before me, I also feel that though you rarely explicitly mention your faith it is a very present under and overtone in your writing. Whether the entry is humorous or serious, your faith is always present and it's inspiring to your readers! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! (08.16.2010 04:15pm)

148) Stephanie: I'm sorry for what happened. I'm glad I can get online, read your blog, and be reminded of the things in life that are important. I know I can read your blog and often learn something about myself that I have been hiding or avoiding. Thanks for that! (08.16.2010 04:17pm)

149) Andie: I'm so sorry you guys had to go through this. Even though we never met I follow your blog and to find out someone violated your space and sense of security just infuriated me. Glad you're all safe :) (08.16.2010 04:24pm)

150) Kimberly: Katie & Family, You are a strong person, and you have a strong family. Your Faith and family will get you through this. I am so sorrt this happened to you guys. Glad what matters is safe! (08.16.2010 04:27pm)

151) Sara: Lots and lots of prayers sent to you and your family; stay strong!! (08.16.2010 04:29pm)

152) Dyanna: Oh my...I have read this post several times today and each time I've cried my eyes out... Just a few days ago you were so excited that you and Bean were suppose to be going to see Ginny today...and now this... I am so glad you guys are safe now. Where was Big Molly?? (08.16.2010 04:35pm)

153) Niki: (((HUGS))) I had tears in my eyes as I read of the revelation you had after the break-in. I know how it feels to have something stolen from you. Violated is the right word. It's awful. I've never experienced having my home broken into, though other homes on my street have been broken into, so I don't know how that feels. But I can imagine it feels much more violating than when I had my purse stolen. What a nightmare. As I read what you wrote about God and how He has shaken things up in your life, I was reminded of this quote: "We turn to God for help when our foundations are shaking, only to learn that it is God who is shaking them." We all go through hard times, trials and valleys. I know you know this. It's times like this that all you can do is hold on and trust God. You will be on the mountain again someday. Hopefully soon. (08.16.2010 04:38pm)

154) Heidi: Ufff my heart breaks for you two - but I am so glad y'all are safe. Your faith is so remarkable, and so admirable, especially in such trying times. But you're right - everything taken was replaceable, the end you have each other, your families and your safety. Sending you guys many good thoughts and prayers your way. (08.16.2010 04:38pm)

155) Anne: Katie, I, too, have read this multiple times over today. My house was broken into several years ago and while the things they took were material things you are right in the way you feel that they invaded your home and your privacy. I'm glad that you and all of the family were able to get out of there and that you don't have to go back but I'm sorry - what really makes me angry is that they not only would steal things from your home but ruin things that don't belong to them! It's bad enough to steal and make you feel vulnerable but why pour clam chowder on your belongings? I'm glad that you are with your parents - I know you find comfort there. You will find comfort when you and Chris find a new home too. Take care and big hugs. (08.16.2010 04:41pm)

156) Diana: Oh, Katie, I'm so sorry to hear that your house was broken into. I can only imagine how you must have felt, but I'm so happy that you and your family are safe. It really sounds like you have your priorities in order and I'm glad you had such a peaceful nights sleep. (08.16.2010 04:57pm)

157) Becca: ohmigosh.. I hated reading about what happened to you! I had a break in a few years back and it was horrifying. Thank goodness you and your family are safe. *HUGS* (08.16.2010 05:15pm)

158) jessica: katie, oh my goodness, i am so sorry to read this and go through heartbreak with your family. i dont know if you read the comments, but when i lived alone in orlando we found a tucked away neghiborhood on far west side of town that i loved living in and felt so safe there, its part of windermere and i can get you intouch with the man who rented to us. good luck in your search. (08.16.2010 05:22pm)

159) Elizabeth R: I am so sorry that you got your house broken into! I had that happen to me several years ago and I can remember the violation that I felt and it took me a long time to spend the night in that house alone ever again. I'm glad that you can see what the Lord has been teaching you through this and that you can be thankful that you have your health and family and while those things are sentimental that you lost - they are just things. I hope you find a new house soon and am glad that you are out of that house and safe with your family. Take care! (08.16.2010 05:31pm)

160) Donna: So sorry to hear about the break in. I am glad you have the family support to be able to help you right now. (08.16.2010 05:33pm)

161) Maybelline @ Todos los días se aprende algo nuevo: I´m truly sorry for all that happened.. But like you said, God has a divine plan for us.. He will only put test on your way that he knows you´ll pass, I know! we don´t always understand how his plans work, but your faith will let you accept them no matter what.. I wish you nothing but the best in this new unexpected chapter in your life.. God Bless you and your family (08.16.2010 05:36pm)

162) Lindsey: So sorry this happened to you guys. You are in my prayers. Just a thought- check your local pawn shops for some of the jewelry and whatnot. My cousin's house was broken into and he got his ring that our grandmother gave to him back when he found it in a pawn shop. Glad you are safe. (08.16.2010 06:03pm)

163) Lissa: Cried, cried, cried over this post. Beautifully written....Thank you for taking the time to share this with all of us. I was robbed in my early 20s. Came home to my apartment (and yes, in a pretty iffy neighborhood) and the girl across the hall was saying that when she got home my door was open and that something seemed wrong. My thieves were not quite as thorough as yours, but most things were gone. And the image of those guys touching my things, walking around, talking and then loading them into my great grandmothers quilt so they could conveniently haul them all away was overwhelming...emotional rape was all I could think of. Our church does a daily bible message. This was the one for today: Isaiah 54:10-17 (New International Version) 10 Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed," says the LORD, who has compassion on you. (08.16.2010 06:22pm)

164) Lissa: This is a word of caution for everyone (learned from the police when I was robbed): the very second you know something is wrong, aka, see the house has been ransacked, DO NOT go in. Call the police and wait until they arrive to check things out. As you said, it's only things....but a robbery interrupted can easily become so much worse. (08.16.2010 06:33pm)

165) Noa: I've been reading for a few months now, but I've never commented (I'm really shy, even on the internet!). But I had to comment today, I am so so sorry to hear what happened - I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I'm happy you have your family to go through this. Just today I found out one of my aunt's house was broken into as well... she was alone, sleeping upstairs when it happened. Thankfully she didn't wake up. Luckily you didn't interrupt them either. Hugs from Spain (08.16.2010 06:38pm)

166) Jennie: My heart broke while reading this post. But THANK YOU for posting such an intimate and personal happening in your life. I can completely understand and relate as to why you keep religion out of your blog, I am the same way with my life and religious beliefs. I never want to belittle others based on what they believe, but times like this are exactly when we are reminded of how powerful God is, and how important our relationship with Him is. I am a new follower of yours, and I feel like we know each other. I have laughed with you, and now have cried for you. I deeply respect your strength, and I KNOW that your family will get through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. (08.16.2010 06:42pm)

167) Jess: I'm so sorry someone did something so awful, and so glad that you all are safe! Your faith is inspiring. You, Chris, Bean, Lucy and Molly and even the new fishy will be in my prayers. (08.16.2010 07:04pm)

168) Ashley: My heart goes out to y'all. I've been dealing with the transition of moving to a new town and uprooting a pretty stable life as well. I can't imagine dealing with the additional stress and worry of a home invasion. You're all in my prayers. So glad you're safe. (08.16.2010 07:08pm)

169) Heather: I'm so sorry that this happened to your family. I felt sick to my stomach last night when I saw your twitter message, and I waited anxiously all morning, hoping you would post about it today. I'm thankful that you no one was hurt, and that nothing that was taken is irreplaceable. Thank God that you have a place to go, and that you only have two weeks left on your lease. I pray that you and Chris will be able to find a better home in a better neighborhood. Your blog is a daily source of inspiration for me, and I am so sorry that such a rotten thing has happened to such good people. I will keep your family in my prayers. (08.16.2010 07:08pm)

170) Kristin H: I know just how awful it feels. My apartment was broken into in February, and the absolute worst part was losing the sense of safety we had. So glad you had somewhere to go, and that no one was hurt. (08.16.2010 07:22pm)

171) Angela: When I saw your tweet last night, my heart broke. Having my house broken into is my worst fear, I can't even imagine how that would feel.I am so sorry this happened to you, and I am thankful that Bean was with his grandparents. You are such an amazing role model and inspiration to us all. You, Chris, Beanie, Lucy, and Big Molly are all in my prayers. Give your dogs a hug for me, they must have been so scared when the robbers were there. Where did you find Big Molly? I thought robbers would have been afraid of such a big dog. (08.16.2010 07:49pm)

172) alison: so sorry for what you have gone through! (((HUGS))) They say things happen for a reason, though we may not realize it at the time. Glad you are all safe and sound! (08.16.2010 08:00pm)

173) Ashley: I can't tell you how sorry I am that someone violated you all in that way. It's a horrible thing, and I believe with all my heart that God handles those people in his own way and in his own time. I also cannot thank you enough for writing this. About three hours ago, I was in a serious accident. I hurt myself, but more than that, I hurt the car. I've been worrying about the car all this time, and your post brought me to tears. I realized that we can fix the car, but the main thing is that I'm okay. The other person is okay. We are both fine and walking and talking and with our families, not in a hospital and not dead. Thank you for helping me to realize what's truly important. (08.16.2010 08:01pm)

174) jlmewha: "Experience is not what happens to you; it is what you do with what happens to you." ~ Aldous Huxley You have taken away the most important "lesson" from this experience. The strength you have as a family, which you have shown us through this blog, will get you through this. Things can be replaced, thank goodness none of you where harmed (especially the dogs where were there!). I pray my husband and I have to go through something like this. I will keep your family in my thoughts as you try and move past the violation of your sense of security. (08.16.2010 08:20pm)

175) Katie WS: Sending lots of love, thoughts, and prayers your way. I'm relived that you, Chris, Bean, Lucy, and Big Molly are all okay. I cannot believe that there are people in this world that would not only rob a family, but totally destroy the house (and pour soup everywhere?). It's disgusting. Take care and enjoy your time with your family. (08.16.2010 08:25pm)

176) Kat: UGH that is just so scary! I hope they're caught and that you guys find a new place soon. (08.16.2010 08:32pm)

177) kristen @ the little potato: this entry just brought tears to my eyes (could be pregnancy hormones too!). it's so scary to be broken into. but it seems that it also helped you gain some insight. stay safe. (08.16.2010 08:38pm)

178) Kate Buselli: I've been reading your blog for several months, and this was your best post yet. You should write about faith more, because you have an amazing outlook. You are really listening to the ways God speaks to you, and are inspiring others to do the same thing through your writing. I could feel your trust and contentment in the Lord, even through such stress. I'll pray for your family, although is sounds likes God is taking perfect care of you. (08.16.2010 08:38pm)

179) Liz M.: I cried as I read your post. I worked as a criminal defense attorney and I have seen the looks of hurt and fear on the faces of victims. And it is never the things that they are worried about but rather the feeling that they have been violated and their serenity destroyed. I can only imagine what you felt like going through your home. I have continued thoughts and prayers for you and your family and I hope that the next God decides to speak to you, he finds a less harsh way. (08.16.2010 09:08pm)

180) Amy L Butler: Every post I read translates into my life somehow, someway. What happened to you is terrible, buy I am so glad that you are coming out on top and learning from your experiences. I look forward to reading your blog and I can't wait to see what happens next. I wish you all the best of luck. Keep your heads up and keep your faith. Thank you for sharing. (08.16.2010 09:30pm)

181) Courtney: Oh my this made me cry. I cannot even imagine how awful you felt. I am thankful that you were all safe. I am amazed at how you took an awful situation and saw the good. Hang in there. (08.16.2010 09:30pm)

182) Lindsay (YoungMarriedMom): Katie, your family is in our thoughts and prayers. My husband and I just read your post together and we are so sorry for what you've been through and grateful for the perspective God has given you so quickly after this horrible experience. Thank you for sharing your heart, your family, and your faith with us. May there be happier days ahead! (08.16.2010 09:30pm)

183) Sonya: I am just so sorry for all of you! That is one of the worst things that can ever happen! I had it happen to me years ago and I happened to be living in FL at the time. Like you, I was sad about the things that were taken, but the fact that someone had been in my home that was the worst. I am so glad that you are able to get out of the lease and I'll be praying for you as you look for a new place. (08.16.2010 09:34pm)

184) Courtney: Oh my goodness Katie. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you and your family. I know it can be a scary time. I'm thankful that you guys weren't home and not physically hurt. I know your sense of security can be really hurt by something like this. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts. (08.16.2010 09:38pm)

185) Sarah C. H.: I'm so glad everyone is okay and so sorry that this happened to you guys. And I'm really glad to hear that you've moved out of there. And thanks for giving me a wake-up call. I try to be careful but I don't think it really hits me how easy it would be for someone to break into my car, or my house, or even to hurt me. And I'm definitely going to have to invest in one of those small safes to keep my jewelry in. (08.16.2010 09:51pm)

186) Margaret: Oh, Katie. My heart broke for you. I read the first part and then had to run out for dinner, but then I came back and saw the second half. Well, I just felt your peace about being in your parents' house with Bean and Chris. God is truly keeping his hand on your family, and more importantly, he is drawing your heart closer to His. Praise God for that! (08.16.2010 09:58pm)

187) Samira: I'm sorry that this happened to you. Your family is in my thoughts. (08.16.2010 10:04pm)

188) Christina: What an unbelievable story...I am in tears. I feel at a loss for words, though. It's the kind of thing where I would much rather reach over and hug you than say much of anything. I am so, so glad that you were able to get to a safe place, both literally and figuratively. I agree with others that you have written a beautiful post, but the true beauty lies in your knowing. Knowing whose you are. I am sorry that this happened to you guys, but I pray that you continue to reap the blessings from the perspective you have chosen to have. And may He provide you with a home, and abide there as well. (08.16.2010 10:23pm)

189) Christina: And what in the world was up with the soup all over?! (08.16.2010 10:25pm)

190) Anon: I am so sorry about your house being broken into. However, I believe that your iPhone has a tracker, and that you might even be able to use it to try and track down your other stuff. I am not completely sure, but I really hope this helps. http://itunes.apple.com/us/app/find-my-iphone/id376101648?mt=8# (08.16.2010 11:10pm)

191) Amber: I am so sorry to hear about such an awful experience. Thank you for sharing about it and the lessons that tough times can teach us, especially in our faith. It reminds me that in the midst of uncertainty and difficulty, there is an amazing freedom that is found in trusting God. I am the kind of person to worry and stress about things I can't control and about the future, but then God will remind me that He is in control and that by trusting him I can find freedom and peace. (08.16.2010 11:16pm)

192) Deanna: Wow. That's all I have to say. Wow. Heartbreaking. But seriously, God likes to brink us to the brink doesn't he? To a place where we have real surrender. I needed to read your post today as my life is in major upheavel at the moment (see my blog) and I need these reminders. Thank you. (08.16.2010 11:53pm)

193) Vikki: Wow...I've been in your position and it felt terrible...the violation, terror, frustration, down-right pissed off...I too had family jewelry taken, electronics etc...even adult beverages from the fridge taken (I guess all that work made them thirsty) it all happened in daylight...an no-one saw a thing! I feel for your family...your will get past it altho it will take time. So sorry it happened to your family. (08.17.2010 01:05am)

194) Amy: This makes me feel sick to read. I am so sorry that you've had to go through this- but your peace and trust in God is inspiring and encourages me to trust Him the same way in my life (08.17.2010 05:41am)

195) Lorrie: Katie, I read your blog everyday. I don't comment often, but I identify with your words and I find myself laughing and crying while reading your blog. This post absolutely broke my heart. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that God helps you move past this incident and find a home that you will feel safe in. I'm so sorry this happened to you, but I know your family will get past this and will bloom in the new place you are planted in. (08.17.2010 07:44am)

196) Angie: I am so sorry that you had to go through that. That was a beautiful post xxoo (08.17.2010 07:57am)

197) Carrie: Oh my gosh my heart hurt when I read this! How scary! I am glad all of you are safe! I will pray for all of you! (08.17.2010 08:16am)

198) Tabitha (From Single to Married): wow - I'm so sorry for you! I can't imagine how I would feel to come home and have had my house broken into. What an awful feeling! I know it's wrong, but I feel such anger on your behalf that someone would stoop so low to do that! I don't blame you for not wanting to stay there any longer, I wouldn't want to either. And I'm glad that you are trusting in the Lord and finding peace even through a difficult situation. (08.17.2010 08:26am)

199) Alyssa: Oh Katie, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what it felt like to walk into your home and see that. Thank goodness you, Chris, and Bean are okay. I'm sorry that you lost your jewelry, maybe check pawn shops in the area? I will be thinking about you and hoping things start to work out for you. (08.17.2010 09:19am)

200) Kara: Katie -- Sigh, I am so terribly sorry that this happened to you and your family, but am so glad to hear that you all are safe. Sending lots of positive and healing thoughts your way... (08.17.2010 09:29am)

201) Alyssa: I meant to include this link...you might find this book comforting now. http://www.amazon.com/Power-Praying-Wife-Stormie-Omartian/dp/1565075722 (08.17.2010 09:33am)

202) Mary: Oh Katie, I'm also a long time reader and a rare commenter, but I had to comment on this post to say that I am so so sorry. This absolutely breaks my heart. In the midst of all this, thank you for reminding us what's important in life. After reading this, I whispered a prayer and then hugged my fiance just a little tighter. (08.17.2010 09:49am)

203) Nicole: I haven't commented before, but I had to comment on this post. I am so sorry to hear about your break in and the loss of such special mementos. I too have had a home break in and understand what a violation it is and how scary it can be. It is also so hard to lose things that don't have much monetary value, but that meant so much too you. Insurance can do nothing to replace that kind of loss. It is hard to understand how people can do something like this, but with time you will get over it. I will be praying for you and your family. (08.17.2010 10:19am)

204) Beanie's Nana: To the Loving Readers of MC: Your outpouring of sympathy, concern and compassion validates my belief that the world is full of caring souls and loving people...far outweighing the darker side of humanity that seems to get all the spotlight. If you are willing to show this kind of love to KC&B, I know you must be blessing those around you every day. You all made my day! (08.17.2010 10:36am)

205) Stephanie@ourmarriageadventure: So I re-read this last night and this time I did so out loud to my husband. Before I got through the entire first paragraph he holds up a hand to shut me up and goes "Where is Bean? Is he safe?" Your post and willingness to share has allowed all of us to be reminded of the truly important things in life and just know that everyone (including those forced reader husbands like mine) have your ENTIRE family in our prayers. (08.17.2010 10:39am)

206) dana: katie, i'm so sorry to hear about the break-in! i'm so glad you have your parents' place to take refuge. we're all thinking of you and wishing you all well up here in new haven. (08.17.2010 11:06am)

207) Sarah C: So sorry your family had to go throught this. The end of this post brought tears to my eyes. All I can say is Amen. (08.17.2010 02:04pm)

208) Jennifer: Wow, what sucky people!!! I cant imagine how violated yall must feel. I'm so glad yall are safe and sound adn that it wasnt in the middle of the night, while yall were sleeping. I hope the police are able to catch the thiefs. If this happened to us I dont know what I'd do. I'm glad you were able to sleep soundly at your parents. I pray yall find a safe place to call your own soon! Make sure it has an alarm system!! I'll be looking into getting one after reading this post. (08.17.2010 02:19pm)

209) Corinn: Praying for you all, that the feelings this now leaves you with will soon fade! I am so glad that you, Chris, Bean and the pups are all okay! How very scary. (08.17.2010 02:25pm)

210) Katie: I cannot stop thinking about this trama your family went. I read your blog everyday and it has really given me a lot of insight into marriage as I am a newlywed. This entry really struck home for me. I was married in June. I was so vulnerable at the time since I had just been laid off from my teaching job and we had just bought a house and depleted our savings. Luckily I got a new job, but then my car needed a lot of repair. My husband and I just kept saying God doesn't give us more than we can handle. Then my husband got into a car accident and we are a one car family with two full time jobs. God stripped us of all these things so we could learn to rely on him and each other. Your story really showed me that we are always having our faith tested. I know you and your beautiful family will be rewarded for your faithfullness. (08.17.2010 03:47pm)

211) KP: This is horrible! I am angry that people would do something so hurtful and destructive...and the more I think about it, the angrier I become: what if these were people who read your blog? Who saw your video tour and your Twitter update? Who used that information to do such destructive things to your home? Maybe it's unlikely, but have you or the police considered that option? I sincerely hope it isn't true because it would probably change the way you write and use your blog and I know I've been following you (and emailing you occasionally!) since before your baby was born! My thoughts and prayers are with you, Katie. (08.17.2010 05:55pm)

212) Brigitte: Praying for you! (08.17.2010 06:34pm)

213) Kiele: I'm definitely not the first to say this but I am SO glad you and your family were safe. You have such a great perspective on life and I know you will bounce back from this. I wish there was something I could do to help but just know that I am keeping you and your family in my prayers. (08.17.2010 07:14pm)

214) Dee: Katie, I am so sorry to hear what has happened. This is terrible. I hope you find a safe new place soon and everything works out quickly for you. (08.17.2010 10:50pm)

215) pamtastic: I'm so glad that you and you're family were (and are still) safe and sound. It sounds like it was a bunch of kids that did this by the mess they made, but that's really of no comfort. I'm so glad that you live near family and are able to stay with them. Best of luck finding a new place to hang your hat and I soooo hope that the police find these losers that did this. (08.17.2010 11:04pm)

216) Laura: How heartbreaking, Katie. It is horrible to be put in such a vulnerable position. How scary! Thank goodness that you, Chris and Bean are all safe and that Bean wasn't home with a babysitter, or that you weren't home alone...Thinking about that makes me sick to my stomach. I admire your strength and faith. You will get through this. You definitely will - all these things are just going to bolster your faith. I'm so sad about your promise rings, especially, and the other things that were sentimental to you. One thing that struck me, as some others have said, is how miserable it is that they poured soup all over your furniture. That kind of malice is horrible. I feel furious - for obvious reasons - but a little part of me thinks that these perpetrators really need some prayers too. Because to have such hatred and cowardice - well, no matter how much they stole, you are much better off than them. They can't take away your kind heart, the love of your family and your faith. Stay strong, Katie. xxx from Laura down under (08.18.2010 12:00am)

217) D. Sarah H.: Hey Katie, Long time reader, very infrequent commenter here. I read your post a few minutes ago and my heart is absolutely breaking for you, Chris, Bean and your puppies. I am so sorry! Your ability to find the silver lining in all of this chaos is amazing - you are such a strong person! I am so glad I've been reading your blog over the last couple of years, you constantly inspire me (and I am sure many of your other readers would agree). Hopefully the police will catch these guys and put them behind bars where they belong. Good luck with your new home search, I am sure you'll find a place where you guys can continue to bloom. Hugs from Los Angeles! (08.18.2010 12:28am)

218) Isabel: I am so sorry your house was broken into. My flat was broken into when I was at university and I can remember what a horrible feeling it leaves. I'm just glad that all of you are safe. I hope you find a better place to live soon. Thinking of you all... (08.18.2010 05:57am)

219) Krista: I read this monday and was too sad to comment. I am so sorry that you were violated in such a personal attack. I don't think I could return home and feel safe again either. I am so glad that you have family and faith to get you through this. You are right that sometimes you have to look at it differently and God will help you see the way. Good luck Katie! (08.18.2010 09:56am)

220) Jennifer: My heart breaks right now for the priceless things you have lost and violation that was brought upon your family. However, you still have the memories from those "things," and that is more important. Thank God you are all safe. Praying for your family. (08.18.2010 10:14am)

221) Bee: Personally I'm not religious however I do admire your faith mostly the strength you have found. I can't imagine what it would be like to have your whole house intruded upon. I'm a person who keeps many things, mostly invaluable but I think that the hardest thing to overcome is that another person can take your belongings and along with those the memories that go right along with them. A lot of people in the world are spiteful and extremely selfish, the people who thought it were acceptable to do this to your house are people in need of help. They should be thankful that the home they preyed upon was rented by people who can see through this to forgiving, and not giving them an ass kicking. I'm glad that you and your family are safe and that sweet sweet little Lucy is safe. I could not even imagine my fury or tears if they had of taken her. Thank god that all they want is meaningless money and they left behind the love you have left. (08.18.2010 10:17am)

222) Carlene: I thought I understood loss when a fire took half of our house. But to have your trust and privacy violated like that...I can't imagine. Keep the faith, keep praying. You'll get through this time in your life! (08.18.2010 11:12am)

223) Julie: I'm so glad that you weren't home when it happened. I know firsthand the sense of violation that comes with a home invasion. We were at home when someone broke into our home, and I couldn't stand to be in that apartment one second longer after that - fortunately our landlord let us switch our lease to another apartment. This happened when we were in college - I can't imagine it happening now that we have small children. I'm glad that you are all safe and have a safe place to be right now. (08.18.2010 11:50am)

224) Msnels: I'm so sorry to hear that! I admire your faith though, and this is a beautiful post. Best of luck. (08.18.2010 12:27pm)

225) Tracy: Thank goodness you have your parents nearby to offer a safe haven. I can't imagine the sense of violation that comes with being robbed, but I'm glad you aren't letting Satan have his way in this. Your faith and family will help tremendously I'm sure (I've never been through a home invasion) and they are both close at hand through all of this. (08.18.2010 01:07pm)

226) Emily Marie: First, I am so so sorry that your home was broken into. I can't even imagine how horrible that much have been. Second, thank you for sharing your feelings of faith in the Lord. It is truely so inspiring to know you've only become stronger because of this. God bless. (08.18.2010 01:15pm)

227) Jeska: I've always seen God in you. Always. With this, it's rather blinding. You are truly an inspiration and just so amazing to see the good in this. Petunia will be missed, as well as the other things, but what breaks my heart are the earrings and your promise rings. I'm so sorry that your family and home were violated. How great that you were not home, and more importantly, that bean was not home. Give my love to Lucy and Molly! Of course, you all have my love and prayers. (08.18.2010 06:31pm)

228) Vicki: When Caroline ( daughter ) stopped by school to help me work in the classroom, the first words out of her mouth were to tell my teaching friends all about this post. You are in our thoughts and prayers~ the violation is horrible and we are so sad for you. We've all become readers. However you are blessed in many ways~ a wonderful following of readers, a gifted writer, a wonderful mom and wife, a person of faith , you weren't there and you have supportive family. Don't let this MARK who you are~ stay strong many are pulling for you and hope this leads to a better situation for your beautiful family. (08.18.2010 09:01pm)

229) Lauren: I am definitely praying for you and your family. My house was broken into a year ago and I still don't feel the same. They took DVDs, jewelry, money and prescription pills.. nothing big, but still terrifying. It is more about the lost sense of security and it takes awhile to get that back. I hope they catch whoever did it.. I know I felt a little better when we figured it out. Prayers for you, especially since I was in your shoes not too long ago. <3 (08.18.2010 10:04pm)

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