• Happy 30th Birthday, Chris!

    Dear Pookey, Welcome to your 30’s!  I can’t believe that we have actually been together for half our lives now.  In some ways that feels impossible.  I still get butterflies when you kiss…

  • Confessions About Fighting

    I’m sure every marriage is different in their fighting style. Sometimes I hear girlfriend’s talk about fights they have had with their husbands, and I think, “Holy cow, that can’t be healthy!” But…

  • 8 Years, 38 Reasons

    38 Reasons I love my husband… 1. Whenever he sees me trying to take the trash out, he stops and takes it from me so I don’t have to carry it outside. 2. He cleans my…

  • Bringing Your Work Home

    One of the things that came out of the Big Fight of 2013 is the realization that Chris and I had stopped sharing small things about our days with each other. Either because…

  • Rough Patch

    Chris and I are coming out of rough patch that we’ve been battling for a couple months. Those are never any fun to be in, but they are even LESS fun to come…

  • Anybody Still Out There?

    Hello?  Is anyone still out there? I took a spontaneous little blogging break this week on accident.  Part of the break was because I have been busy, part of the break was because…

  • In the Silence

    I’m in the middle of an eight-week small group Bible study at my church.  Our ministers asked a group of people to participate and go through this sort of training period, so that…

  • Nagging vs. Communicating

    Chris and I are coming off the heels of a tough month for our marriage.  We go through these periodically, and I’m hoping that’s fairly normal.  About once a year, there’s a big…

  • Enough.

    I’ve been a little down for the past two weeks.  Chris and I were going through some stuff that I’m not quite ready to share yet.  I’ve had a terrible cold.  We’re closing…